The 71

I was riding the bus to Warner today and things got interesting. My friends had suggested that I try riding a different bus line than I am used to (71) and so I did. Because I was not familiar with the route I got off at the wrong stop and had to wait for the next 71 to come. At the bus stop I sat inside the shelter and read my book, and was soon joined by a scrawny teenage boy who shared my smile and then crouched outside of the shelter to wait. When the 71 came he got on the bus before me and sat in the seat directly behind the bus driver. From my spot at the rear end of the priority seating area I noted his matching Star Wars vans and T shirt. He really was just a kid, but the adorable nerdy kind that I would have been friends with in High School and somehow ended up coming back around to in my adult life.

The back of the bus was sparsely filled and this kid and I were the only ones in the front until about three stops later when another teenager, older than the kid, stumbled onto the bus. This teenager was clearly under the influence of something. He wasn’t swaying exactly, but stood in a way that suggested his unsteadiness. When he put only one dollar into the cash slot and sat down the bus the driver had a hard time communicating with him through his slurred words. The driver was clear about his mistake but despite calm words the teenager became more and more agitated (a lot of profanity and racial slurs here) about the unfairness of the situation.

It was about this time that the teenager addressed the kid. He asked about a possible mutual friend, Tyler, and asked for money. (The bus driver was calling in the situation on the radio.) When the boy did not cooperate the teenager, who was sitting directly across from the boy and two seats away from me, seemed to make up his mind about something. There was a subtle shift in his gaze—the difference between coherent and irrationally enraged.

Suddenly the teenager stood up and punched the boy in the face. (At this point the bus driver called the police and reported a fight. I sat transfixed.) The boy sat back-- dazed at first-- and then stood up in time for another blow to the face. This time the boy retaliated with a shove that sent the two of them grappling towards the bus door. I had been thinking “Move! Move? Grab your mace, help the kid, do something!” but my body was in shock. It wasn’t until the boy stood that I was able to move myself a few seats back.

 At the front of the bus they straightened up and the boy grabbed something from the teenager who was at that point screaming profanity furiously. The boy managed to steer the teenager out of the bus door and after a few attempts to reenter the bus the remaining passengers, myself not included, rang out in chorus “GET OFF THE BUS”. Only when the boy threw something and a large man from the back finally stood up did the teenager run away. On his way out he pressed himself up on the window, eyes crazed and bloodshot, and screamed threats of violence at the boy.

As the other passengers watched the teenager run away, I watched the boy. He leapt back to his seat, cursed a few times, then breathed deeply and looked down at his own shaking hands. “Did you see that? I took his weapon and then he was such a pussy!” a kind of wild excitement in his voice, with only a hint of a tremble. It was as if he was looking for me to congratulate him. I did not want to condone that kind of violent conflict resolution but, given the circumstances, I was grateful. “Are you okay?” I asked, and he nodded yes. Apparently the first punch “Didn’t even hurt”.

I returned to my book. Really I just stared at the page. My heart was racing uncontrollably and my hands were trembling just like the boy’s. I could not articulate words (I think at one point I had yelled “It’s okay, just leave”) and it felt like I was trying to think through a cloud.

            The bus driver asked the boy if he required medical attention and if he wanted to press charges, and he apologized to the driver for the situation. We filed off of the bus and as we waited for our new 71 and the police, some other boys who had been sitting in the back spoke up. “Did you even know that Tyler guy?” The boy shook his head. “No” he said “I just didn’t want that guy on our bus.” The other boys looked at each other incredulously. Another boy spoke up “Did he punch you with those brass knuckles?” As soon as I heard this my heart dropped. Sure enough, the boy explained what I had not seen. “No he didn’t. He tried to put them on but I grabbed them and put them in my pocket. I didn’t ever want to hurt him, I was just trying to get him off of the bus.”

            It struck me then what had really happened. This boy, this stranger, had put himself between me and the drunken, enraged, weapon wielding teenager. With no support from the rest of the bus he single handedly defended us. I was struck with the image of the boy between myself and the teenager. This boy with his fists up by his face like a boxer, complete with a clunky black wrist watch. I wanted to hug him. To thank him and impress upon him the important truth that the nobility of his action stemmed not from his physical triumph, but from the courage it took to accomplish that triumph.

            As I was boarding the new 71 I listened to the boy give his statement to the police. His name was Augustus. My heart melted. He really was just a boy. I told him as I stepped onto my bus “Have a better day” and he said that he would try. I wanted to thank him and he was saying something else to me, maybe apologizing to us for the hold up, but the people behind me pushed me forward onto the new bus.

            I know that I will probably never see him again but Augustus, thank you.

From this situation I have made several deductions:

-          There is an abundance of violence in the world

-          Violence is caustic, but can become necessary

-          I have a very poor stress response. In the past I have suspected this but given today’s events I now know it to be true.

-          In a self-defense situation, I am helpless.

-          I want to change that.